Its been a long time that I'm blogging for friends around me.. There's Troubles everywhere. At this point of time. Are u thinking that life is fated to be that way? Guess u are thinking to go along the "fated" path given to you. God creates you. But he did not create you life journey... I'm not a christian. nor any other religion. when hard time comes. You made your own decision all by yourself. No one is there to tell u nor theres a book/ guide written on what you gonna do next. My dear friend A, B, C & D. This blog is written specially for you 4 girls. It dun seem to be the time to surrender your life. "Ren Ming". Im not a good councilor. But I just hope I could help. I hope things I feel can piece out into words and sent across to you girls. I hope it might help a little.
I believe in fate but I don't think everything is destined. I would like to see it this way.
When I was born, I see a path in front of me. You stride on it with your dad and mum and you're happily hopping along this path.
Somehow the older you grow, the more paths branch out along the way. The more you understand and go through, the more paths will be presented to you at random times.
I choose not to believe that life is FATED. I choose to think that the more knowledge we gain and the more people we meet, we will come to certain nodes in our lives where we will be presented with a crossroad. At this junction, you have a few paths that are presented to you. You DO have the right to make the decision as to which path to choose. You decide which path to take.
Here's where the 'fated' part comes in. I believe whatever follows after you decide the path is somewhat fated.
You will walk along this 'fated' path until the next crossroad. At the next crossroad, you will see a new array of paths again awaiting for your decision. Whichever routes and paths you choose decides what will become of you at the end of the road.
Some paths may lead you back to a familiar path that you may have taken before. I have no regrets. I have no right to regret. Afterall, I chose the path myself. I just leave it to fate to decide what comes after each decision at each crossroad and make the best out of it.
I lost count of the number of crossroads in my life. I am now in another one but believe me, we are versatile creatures. Whichever path you chose, just keep walking straight. You will twist and contorl yourself to suit the environment along the way. Past is a fact. The future is still a blank. Keep your head and spirit up and you will find yourself getting through it.
I am what I am because of the decisions I have made. I am what I am because of the experiences I have had along each path. Life is a wonderful journey filled with unexpected entries everyday. I am loving what it brings. What about you? If you're not, you may want to walk to a crossroad and decide a new path to take? It's your take. :)
Everyday when i wake up, I have to start making decisions instantly. I decide if I wanna be happy or sad. Believe me. If you chose to be happy, the path that follows is fated. Most of the time, you will really be happy. Not all paths are smooth. They're fated anyway. Wake up to a new day and you're good to go again.
Afterall when you think again! Life is beautiful. Isn't it? :)
Cheer up my dear friends. I tear, I cry, I complaints having bad health, life and loosing love ones. I miss things that I've slipped away. I miss dad lots than anyone could imagine. But I'll nv forget to treasure mum, my family and you guys. Who noes. whats the next path ahead:) keep memories of the past and be ready to fill in the blanks for the future :) Love all of you!
I wish "again"...
Having a bad flu now... down with cold again -_-
Do wishes really come true?
How many wishes that people hope had actually came true?
Many things I've wish before... non came to reality
1. I wish i could grow taller
But its obvious it nv come true -_-
2. I wish that I can pass my PSLE for express stream.
I passed but posted to normal acad cos 2 days of my psle, i'm down with high fever & serious asthma attack.
3. I wish Dad will recover from his illness
It didnt... dad still left me after 5 years of deep wishes
4. I wish I could be as healthy as the rest
But I'm still down with min. 2 times bad flu weekly and atleast 1 high fever monthly for my entire 20 years
5. I wish I would not nose bleed as much like the past.
But the more im cautious about it, the more frequent it'll come to me.
6. I wish hard that my o levels could pass smoothly without falling sick during exam period as i always will.
And I got high fever up to 39degree on the 2nd day of paper & throughout the rest of the examination period.
7. I wish to be cheerful forever
But someone hurts me so deep before till I go blind for e 2 yrs and suffer badly myself.
8. I wish I can persue my dream far enough.
And back injury pulling me away from everything I'm striving for.
And now... wish... if i were to wish again. Will Santa grant my wish this time round? I wish...
Cranberry Fever This season
I've been Craving for Cranberry stuff all along. Cranberry sweet, cranberry seeds, cranberry juices... and now... I've bought the whole Cranberry body package! Gosh... Should i change my name to Cranberry too -_- 
My Fav.
Started with a msiable day yesterday morning... dun feel good in a way for the whole afternoon.Its All about the shop (-_-). Beside playing cards in the showflat with my "old school" collgues^^.Nothing Seems better... Wasting of time working on A Sunday doing nothing... Went home straight after work. kinda boring day. But it became fun when my lovely sis accompany me out for a walk~ we went down town.. took Love Getty !!! haha.. Feel so old to do all this. But it feels real good taking photos again! Went for shopping and had a great dinner @Yoshinoya^^ Bought 4 Sweet Underwear too =X haha sorry... but its really pretty... cant control but to be proud of it! lols...
Well, its a Monday morning again... Back to office... doing nothing & acting busy. 2 more months to go!!! Jia you to me!!!
Best company ... My lovely mei mei ^^
16 years of sisters love! I treasure you :)
Best Meal of the day ^^
Every moments counts ... we know that :)
Never say I love you if u dun mean it...
I Love You & I mean it ^-^
Finally! I'm Free to blog!!! Had a busy week. Proposals, reports, researches, project launches & duties.......... Thought I could catch a lil more rest after production. But it seems like I'm getting even more busy than before!! that's more to come...
Latest News : I'm having my own business very soon! today is the handover of keys. Excited!! but i've got no time for the handover today. Attachment restricting me -_- Mum went to collect the key and she's also doing the cleaning up. I feel so bad didnt help in anyway... finally tml is my one & only precious off day... Guess I'll be busy with my shop deco and all...
Oh ya~ talked for so long, You guys should be wondering wat business am I doing right? wahaha... I'm Opening ......................................................................
JJ's Beauty Nail Parlour!
Its a shophouse in my neigbourhood ~ I'm targeting the whole neighbourhood! Wahahha~~~ but that's not the most exciting news... more to come..! as ive said its a shop house, which means that its a two storey "shop" & "house"` the top floor is currently empty.... thats my dream tt im striving for~
JJ's DANCE studio!!!
but its still far to go lar... still dreaming on...
Okay... back to my personal nail parlour~ why im saying "personal" simply bcoz im paying the rental myself!!! YEa Myself -_-"' no more shopping, facial, dolling up myself =/ SAFE MONEY~~~
but I'm only renting a small portion of the shop~ the rest are my mum's spa and hair studio....And mummy is good enough not too charge me the actual rental amount... She wants me to start deep down from the root which is to pay all expenses and responsible with my own profit and lost for my own business. On the other hand she's guiding me through the risks and after all I'm still being well protected ^_^ thnks mum...
Viewers here... please support me ya! come down and I'll promise to give the best offer! Especially christmas & New Year is around the corner! its time to pamper your pretty nails! ^_^ hees... so do look out for my upcoming news soon kies!
gosh... back to my proposal again -_-"'
cyaz
Ciaoz!!! lalalala~~
This song is just for you baby :)
3days past... how haf u been my dear? hopes all well in the jungle. Everyday i've been checking the weather forecast. Atfirst u asked mi to pray tt everyday rain. But my collegue told mi if it rains, u will sure get foot rot! which will be very painful!! gosh~ now ive been praying not to rain over there~!! but the weather forecast says the outlook for pulau tekong will be showering for the next 3 dayz =../ my poor bitterman... 5 more days to see u. Promise to shower you with lots of love when u r out~!!! but my soup like in the failing end... not very nice to drink=/ *mayb i go buy for u safer... haha...
i didnt haf time to blog everyday for u. sorry. but hope the msges tt i text will still motivates u ya. Miss you my love...
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I Find it quite true.... gif it a try ~
You have always longed for tenderness, love and a sensitivity of feeling into which you would like to blend. You are a very gentle warm person and responsive to 'All things bright and beautiful'. This personifies a caring person, a person who 'needs' and indeed 'needs to be needed'.Of late, everything seems to be going so slowly - far slower than you anticipated - and this is causing you much anxiety and frustration. It would appear that there is little you can do about the series of events that now seem to be taking place. In spite of the fact that you feel like 'giving up' - don't. Take a deep breath and start over again and you will find that eventually the expression 'All's well that ends well' will have an extra special meaning for you.Compromise is the name of the game at this time and it is the only way you can avoid being deprived of the love and affection you so rightly deserve -so soften up a little, be flexible.You are trying to prove yourself - not only to yourself but also to everyone around you. There is much that you would like to say and do but the situation warrants self-restraint and that is the last thing that you have on your mind. It would seem that you have an unsatisfied need to ally yourself with others whose standards are as high as your own. You want to be different - to stand out from the crowd. This is subjecting you to considerable stress but you tend to stick to your attitudes despite lack of appreciation. Of course, you are finding the situation uncomfortable and would like nothing better but to break away from it but you don't like the idea of compromise. Your main problem is that you are unable to resolve the situation because you continually postpone making the necessary decisions. You feel that if you make the wrong choice this would lead to such opposition that you would not be able to command the esteem of others. It is essential that those around you are prepared to comply with your wishes.You would like to be respected and valued for yourself and this can only be achieved from within a close and harmonious relationship.
happy first month love.
thanks for the flower :) Sweet...
Name : Chan Jia Jin , JJ
Bdae: 21st MaY 1986
Skool: nEw tOwn Pr|, oUtRaM Sec , nGeE aNn pOLy , SIM
[[*My Adores*]]
Food: *ICE CREAM* sOtoNg, cOckLEs, cHerRy, dUr|an
Drinks: cHeRry, CranbeRry
Pastimes: dAncE, laugh, stone and sMiLe
People: LotS, aLmOst eVerYONe |ve mEt |n Life..
[[*Music's Playing*]]
[[*My Past Memories*]]
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[[*The Conversations*]]
[[*My NRA*]]
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|Anne|
|Bec|
|Bjon|
|Peiyi|
|Yen|
|Ariel|
|ter|
|Nexa|
|Minz|
|Steffi|
[[*My Family*]]
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