It has been a year since i've blog... didnt intend to touch tis blog anymre until she hits my tots... decide to blog again. letting u noe ( yes u... the one browsing my blog now) that nothing in this world is fair. everything is imperfect... u jus haf to make the imperfect world perfectly yourself. cos i belief the angels are always by ur side... read tis... n feel it urself...
You, complete me ...
(*by lynn)
We often lay down a lot of criterias for our partners to fulfil. Most of the time, we thought we would like someone pretty similar with us in terms of interest or character in order to 'connect'. I beg to differ.
I am in search of someone who completes me. The definition of 'complete' is- having all the necessary components or parts. In terms of a relationship, i think it will be really boring to find someone who shares the exact same interest or hobbies.
I find its important for 2 persons to progress together. They must be able to share something from their own world. He will be someone who has something I do not. For instance, as a dreamer. I have so much love to give and I would like to spread sunshine to this world. I need a deep thinker who holds my 2 feet to the ground and remind me that this world is not perfect.
Before I march down that aisle, I hope I will be able to tell my other half, ''You, complete me'' Somehow I will be able to find that perfect position with him when we lie on the couch and watch tv and somehow doze off together. He will be the one who makes me laugh when I am feeling down. When I can't seem to remember my dad's birthday, he will be the one who will remind me. Why? Because he will be the one who is interested in my well being and my life and watch me grow old.
We are all reduced to ashes someday. By then, it makes everyone on this earth equal. Don't be someone you are not just to complete him. Just be yourself. See yourself as liquid or a gel. Somehow you will meet someone who loves you for who you are and you will feel like you're 2 pieces of gel that juz come together. That's when 2 worlds unite and you have so much to share till the end of time.
Its really silly to want to be someone you are not just because you are afraid to lose him. I said this before, if you are afraid to lose someone, you actually lost him already.
Its actually not hard to be a gel. Somehow when the chemistry is right, you will be amazed at how flexible you become to fit the other half. :) I choose not to believe that there is only 1 exact mould that fits another mould at some other parts of this earth. If he chooses to judge you and change you, he probably doesn't love you.
I am someone who likes to inspire and develop. All i want is to be the sunshine and pillar behind my man. During this process, he will be my moonlight and pillow whenever I am tired from it all.
Not everyone finds the other half. At least for me, I know I will rather be alone.
''I love you just the way you are.'' Simple yet true. Chemistry is an amazing thing. You can be the best analyst in the world but this is something you just cannot use your head to rationalise. You will soon discover it destroys the romance element. Just follow your heart. Be happy. Life is too short for you to be thinking ALL THE TIME.
Easier said than done. The more heartaches you go through, the more you think. Its tiring, I know.
I would still like to see the glass half full. Always reminding people to keep looking up.
Just go with the flow.... soon, you will find someone who completes you. He could just be someone around you.
* Silly girl, i hope u r fine now... cos ive been thru the same thing before... n im still happily standing infront of u rite now =) Smile...
Sign off Jj *mood level 3/5 ^_^
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